As you grow older life seems more complicated. The person you thought is your friend might be your biggest enemy. It is even harder to trust people, they might stab you at the back anytime. I remember as a student, friends are the person whom I will turn to, when I had a problem.
I have no problem being friends with anyone, but never to close, not like when I was studying. When you befriend with everybody, it is confusing because people seems to want you to be on their side. I am the quiet type of person, I love to listen rather than talk and I guest it is the reason why I can get along with anybody. When people said bad things about other people I just let it passed through me. I also had hearing problem, I can't hear well( guess it come with age and listening to walkman during my younger day has it's effect) , in this case it is a blessing because when people talk about others I just nod but the truth is I just cannot hear clearly what they are talking about.
Office politics is a very dangerous thing, it can make your working life miserable and even worse it can jeopardise your job. Some people can be so cruel and very selfish, and most dangerously when these type of people started to gang up. They can say nice things to you but 2o minutes later they trash you out behind your back.
Have you ever met such people?
Omigod...these type of people are everywhere! My friends are very important to me. And it can get frustrating when our sincerity in friendship is not appreciated.
ReplyDeleteBut I do know I have a few close friends who'd willingly help me in my time of need. And the same goes for me. I'd willingly help my friends when they are in need.
I'm pretty scare too...teacher...my dad keep mentioning this...i feilt scare when they turn thier back to me...
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"Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure."
ReplyDeleteHearing problem? Kah kah kah..ke selctive hearing? Samalah aku ni Ta.
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