Don't you want to be married again, it seems that, it is the question I get a lot lately. Just last week the same question came out from my mother's mouth, really caught me by surprise. Frankly I like the way life is going right now. Even though it is not easy to raise 3 growing children on my own, I found life is simpler this way.
Furthermore If I married again will my new partner love my children and will we be happy. My MIL also post the same question not to me but to my mother. It seems that she is interested to partner me with my brother in law who is coincidentally still single. To me, it is a bit weird and also at the same time funny. Luckily she did not ask me personally because I would not know how to answer her. Somehow I can still feel the present of my late husband so i guess I am still not ready. Yes that would be my answer.
take your time..sis.
ReplyDeleteEntahlah..kalau kau rasa dia masih ada di sisi kau, macam mustahil je nak cari gantinya..itu apa yg aku rasalah..tapi jodoh pertemuan semuanya di tangan Tuhan..kita tak nampak hari esok..
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ReplyDeletetersilap tulih da..long time no update? suppose u been busy busy...ok take care and be strong, salam ramadan to you n family
ReplyDeleteSalam Ramadhan Kak Laily,
ReplyDeleteSemoga Ramadhan kali ini lebih diberkati.
Carik-carik bulu ayam, lama-lama bercantum jua.
Bau-bau bacang, lama-lama lekat baunya.
Semoga dilimpahi Allah berpanjangan
Our society is like that... although we know these people mean well, it can get a wee bit irritating.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, let's just let time takes its course.
miss you.
ReplyDeletemarriage is sacred. you are a wise lady. you know what you want and what your heart tells you. take care.
akhir kata, salam ramadhan to you and your children.
Hello Laily, you just live your life as you want it. We have to bear in mind that children will still miss a parent, be it father or mother.
ReplyDeleteUnless they're grown up, maybe in high school, time as gone by with fond memories of a lost parent, then they will understand a woman's loneliness apart from just being a mother.
As well some stepfathers may not really accept step children, as well will want their own.
Listen to your own self....your heart will guide you....and somewhere, some place, one day....someone will or may cross paths with you. Someone you will be attracted to, or he to you.
Right now I believe it is a bit early to maybe have a relationship...as you will surely be comparing....but as another year or two passes by, your thoughts will be different.
You are still young....your kids need, depend on you....in you, with you they also have a 'father' they miss greatly.
They come first.....
However, I am sure you will be happy again...just hold that smile. Never can tell who's falling in love with your smile.
Best regards, Lee.